Sunday, 10 January 2010

Letting him go.......




Getting over someone you love can be very difficult, especially if you’re not ready to let go. But if a relationship diminishes your self-worth, devalues you, or drains you in any way, then it’s probably time to end the relationship.

So may women stay in dead relationships, hoping that “somehow” things will get better. We convince ourselves that with enough love and patience we can get our partner to change. This is simply not true. Why? Because you cannot change anyone else except yourself. Once you realize that you’re in a relationship that does not serve your highest good and you’re ready to do something about it, you will do what you gotta do to let go and move on. It’s that simple.

1 comment:

  1. Quite Eerie, because I read this article four years ago in a winter afternoon, it help me to achieve so much and four years later I am reading it again. I am convinced that my internal compass will continue re-directing me to this path. I just hope that in time there is an error that will allow me to have an extra hour an extra minute or an extra second, in which I will feel FIRST in time, in the mind of that special one. I guess I am asking to feel like and egoists but I am not asking for a long time.
    AN ERROR IN TIME:
    Dr. Jose Arguelles, PhD. writes:
    "Both the Gregorian calendar and the clock are based on the original Babylonian model which substituted a measurement of space for a measurement of time. Time is not space. Time is of the mind.
    A circle on a flat plane divided into twelve 30-degree parts was used as a model for the annual calendar. A circle on a flat plane has 360 degrees (30 X 12). One annual orbit of the Earth around the Sun is 365 1/4 days. The measure of time according to the standard of the circle on a flat plane is irregular, arbitrary, and irrational. As is the measure of time, so is the measure of our mind.
    Using the flat plane of 12, the clock doubled the 12 to 24 hours and the degrees from 30 to 60 minutes per hour. A clock does not measure time. Clock measures increments of space which, projected as increments of time, are valorised into monetary units. Money does not grow on trees. Money is a function of false time."
    See, there is hope!

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